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Sexual arousal is a four-phase process. In the Excitement Phase, breathing deepens and erection begins. In the Plateau Stage, erection becomes full and you feel highly aroused. When arousal builds to a certain point, the next phase occurs, Orgasm with Ejaculation. Then during the Resolution Phase, breathing returns to normal and erection subsides. The key to ejaculatory control is to extend the Plateau Phase, to maintain arousal without triggering Orgasm and Ejaculation. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.

The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. BY repeated attempts and with the help from female partner a male can( this is an easy job and generally processed by married couples) So don't blame. the curiosity and anxiety level create his body and mind to ejaculation. This wouldn't remain same every time- after losing the anxiety and the more he make attempts gradually he could be able to retain his control over ejaculation. Squeezing technique is the best if it happens when you are having coitus.If a man feels he's about to ejaculate prematurely, he firmly pinches the penis directly below the head, using the thumb and first two fingers of one hand, and squeezes for 3 to 4seconds. The couple should abstain from sex for two weeks. The man then concentrates on the sensations in his penis as his partner touches his genitals and brings him to an erection. The man asks his partner to stop just before ejaculation. After a few minutes, his partner continues to arouse him, then stops again. This sequence is repeated twice more, with ejaculation occurring the fourth time. Then each time the couple has sex, foreplay is prolonged. This squeeze eliminates the desire for ejaculation. This technique should be repeated several times during genital stimulation, so that foreplay can continue without ejaculation. Once mastered, this method can be used in intercourse where a woman (or male partner) inserts her/his partner's penis and sits on top of him motionless. When he feels close to ejaculation, s/he lifts her-/himself off and administers a squeeze, then returns to the sitting position. Over time this results in ejaculatory control.

This uncontrolled ejaculation is a general problems for men in their initial days of sexual activities with his wife, partner. But gradually he will retain his control as the nudity, sexuality, touches and caresses with other bodya dn it became a routime practice gradually his excitement level and over libido will deminish to normal.

With patience and cooperation, couples can overcome this difficulty. So don;t worry let him try with you, you can help him, keep his confidence up, frankly engage with him, if you start with him sexually/intercourse then within some days /week he will fit for mastering to control ejaculation as per his own and your needs.

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Some reason of premature ejaculation: Premature ejaculation can be a result of several factors. Masturbation may fall anywhere from having nothing to do with it to being the sole reason. Masturbation, especially excessive amounts, teaches a man body how to reach orgasm more easily. It also trains the body to be more receptive and sensitive to physical stimulation. For men, it’s not so good because they already require less time and physical stimulation to orgasm. Some other reasons of sexual weakness are daily sex, medications such as depression medication, illegal drug usage such as marijuana smoking. These both could directly result in sexual weakness and hence in premature ejaculation.

It will not lead to impotency, but he is already impotent.

It is a problem which need immediate diagnose and proper treatment. I suggest consulting a good urologist or sexologist as soon as possible.

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The reason for your boyfriends problem is over excitement. This will not lead to impotency since man's body can produce sperm cells continiously unless there is a medical problem. He needs to understand his body, his desire levels and using a combination of exercises and understading his body, he will be able to overcome this problem. This problem is called Premature Ejaculation (PE)

However, in our own surveys we have found that many men with PE say that they did not have rushed, hasty early sexual experiences (though others say they did). These maintain that they were 'highly triggered' right from the start of their sex lives.

Therefore, we feel that the tendency to reach orgasm quickly may often actually be inherited rather than learned.

Finally, there's no question that anxiety (or 'nerves') plays a part in many cases of PE. If you're nervous, you're likely to come too quickly.

Treatment

So, what can be done for PE?

(i) Very mild cases

If you have very mild PE (for instance, if you can 'last' a good five minutes but would like to last 10), there's probably no point in going to a doctor. Why? Because you should be able to improve matters by simple 'distraction techniques'. This means turning your mind to something else when you sense that a climax is near. For instance, you can:

think very hard about something totally unconcerned with sex.

pinch yourself hard.

bite the pillow.

Some men try to treat themselves with a local anaesthetic gel. This product is advertised to the public as a good way to 'damp down' sexual sensation in the penis. But we do not advise using it firstly, because the local anaesthetic can 'dull' the sex sensation for the partner, and secondly because it can sometimes cause a distressing skin sensitivity reaction.

(ii) Getting help for more severe cases

If PE is causing you more significant problems, it is best to consult an expert for treatment. Some people claim that it's possible to 'self treat'- using the special grip mentioned later on. We don't recommend this: we think you should go to a doctor, psychotherapist or counsellor who is trained in the Masters-Johnson method of curing PE for instance at Relate.

(iii) The Masters-Johnson method

This method cures the vast majority of people, provided that both partners are keen to co-operate (which isn't always the case).

It is based on a special 'penis grip' developed by the American therapists, Masters and Johnson. This finger-grip abolishes the desire to climax, so if the couple use it - under careful instruction - over a period of weeks, they can usually 're-train' the man so that he can last much, much longer.

For instance, we have seen many men who had PE so badly that they couldn't even last for 30 seconds. But after careful training with their partners, they were soon able to last as long as half an hour.

The Masters and Johnson grip really needs to be demonstrated to you personally by an expert. Most couples who try to learn it from the Internet or a book get it wrong! But basically, it involves the partner placing her hand so that her thumb is on one side of the man's erect penis (the nearer side to her - when she is facing him, while her index and middle fingers are on the other side. The index finger is just above the ridge of the glans (the 'head' or 'fireman's helmet') while the middle finger is just below the ridge.

When the man feels that he's near to a climax, he tells his partner. She then squeezes his shaft firmly between her thumb and the other two fingers (don't worry: it's painless!).

Unless this is done as part of a carefully organised programme, it probably won't work. Our advice: see a professional.

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Masturbation does not lead to impotence, insanity, blindness or any other such thing. These are all myths and the reality is that 90 percent of the people, men or women, masturbate and most of them masturbate in a reasonable manner and there is no such thing as a bad consequence of masturbation.

But Some of the after-effects of masturbation are :

1. The nervous system is affected the most. 2. Besides the heart, the digestive system, the urinary system as well as the other systems are adversely affected and consequently the whole body becomes the museum of diseases with profound weakness. 3. The eyes become sunken, the cheek bones protrude and there is a black rim round the eyes. 4. Continuous headache and backache. 5. Dizziness and loss of memory. 6. Palpitation of heart on lightest exertion. 7. Nervousness. 8. Unable to perform any heavy physical or mental work. 9. The person dislikes any company and activities and rather likes to sit in seclusion and suffers from weakness. 10. All the senses are impaired. 11. Vision becomes dim, the tongue begins to stammer and ears tend to become deaf etc. 12. Lastly T. B. or insanity or some other serious disease catch hold of the victim to lead his life to a close. 13. Impotency.

HOMOEOPATHIC TREATMENT :

* Sexual appetite increased by every attempt to satisfy it until it drives him to masturbation and madness. ----- Anan.

* A remedy for taking away the habit of masturbation and removing its bad effects. Penis glans get flabby. Penis relaxed. ----- Calad.

* Weakness of the organ after masturbation and excesses. Even his young and beautiful wife excites no erections. ----- Agn-c.

* Desire for solitude in order to practice masturbation. ----- Bufo.

* Excitement of sexual desire for masturbation, with lascivious ideas, day and night. ----- Chin.

* Increase of sexual desire, lascivious ; exposes his person, with desire for masturbation. ----- Hyos.

* Masturbation and its consequences. ----- Nux-v.

* Great sexual excitement driving him to masturbation. ----- Orig.

* Unnatural increase of sexual desire for masturbation, with mental depression. Masturbation before the age of puberty and its effect. ----- Plat.

* A very marked increase of sexual desire, with frequent erections, especially at night, with desire for masturbation. Habit of masturbation in children and for bad effects thereof. ----- Staph.

* Irresistible inclination to masturbation even during sleep. ----- Thuj.

* Weakness due to masturbation. ----- Chin., Ph-ac.

* Bad effect of masturbation. ----- Staph.

* Constipation due to masturbation. ----- Lyc., Nux-v.

* Dullness of mind due to masturbation. ----- Staph.

* Irresistible tendency to masturbation. ----- Ust.

* Weakness of legs and impaired memory due to masturbation. ----- Dig.

* Weakness of eye sight due to masturbation. ----- Cina.

* Melancholy due to masturbation. ----- Aur.

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First of all, premature ejaculation is not really connected to impotence - they are two separate and different problems. You did not specify your boyfriend's age, physical and psychological state, so any advice I can give is very general.

Impotence is a condition when a man either is unable to obtain or maintain an erection, or has an erection that is not strong enough for an intercourse. It is important to realise that all men will experience some of these problems at some stage of their lives and it does not mean they have the disorder. Erections can be affected by factors like illness, stress, environment, etc. If you find that he has been unable to have an intercourse for several months, consult a doctor who will be able to diagnose and treat impotency.

On the other hand, premature ejaculation is a condition where a man can have an intercourse but ejaculates shortly after the start. Again, this can be temorary caused by stress, excitement, etc. But if it happens regularly, you should consult a doctor who will be able to advise you on techniques that will prolong the intercourse.

It is unlikely that a man will ejaculate only at a woman's presence (well, depends how she is dressed and what she is doing). If he really does, he should see a doctor asap. Also, you should advise him that while masturbation is perfectly normal and healthy, excess can reduce his sensitivity in having sex with a woman.

Hope this helps.

Good luck!

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Likewise, this can be learnt too!

Read 'How to make love all night...etc' by Barbara Keesling and it is a worth investment you can give yourself.

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