Since this is what your urologist has advised go with it. Circumcision is painful but it is not all that bad. Plus you get painkillers to reduce the pain. Saw one man on tv having one for religious reasons (converting to Judaism) and it hurt for a while and he got over it pretty quickly.
If it hurts him when he has sex no wonder his sexual desire is less. You would not like to do something that hurt you would you? Once he has had the circumcision the pain will have gone and you never know his desire might improve.
It is a myth that circumcised penises have any less sensitivity which is I think what you mean. There is no loss in sensation infact it is the opposite as there is no foreskin left to dull the sensations.
Surely waiting for 4 weeks is not that big a deal. Just think if you wait then your husband will feel a lot more comfortable and you can have a lot more sex that will certainly improve your chances of getting pregnant.
The phimosis may be stopping your husband from producing his own lubrication which the circumcision should cure. I think you are being a bit selfish in not thinking of what will be best for your husband in the long run. Ultimately what is good for him will be good for you too and if that is what the urologist suggests I would not delay it. It could take upto a year to get pregnant and this would unnecessarily prolong your husbands discomfort.
IF you are trying to get pregnant you should not use KY jelly.
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