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Query from: malathikorpol, hyderabad, andhrapradesh,India, 04/27/08
Topic: FENGSHUI      Submitted on:
Subject: fengshui tips for happy married life

my dob 4th june 1978 my spouse dob 30th september 1970 married on october 29th 2000. which color curtains should i use for mybedroom according to fengshui we love each other but we are unable to spend time with each other.He works in the night shift for mnc company.even he lost interest in sex.he hardly speaks anything that ican count onmy fingers.even we lost very huge amount in business recently.i want him to be lively . please kindly give me some fengshui tips for my married life to make it happy &lively

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Response from: Dr. Sindu.,   
Council Member on NDTV
Source: This information comes from my own knowledge.
Hello Malathi,

Hello , I am not an expert in Feng-shui.But thsese infromation i got from net will be useful for you.

I hope making arrangements according to Feng-hui principles will make your family life more happy.Though i did not find this information on Net i heard that keeping sunflower( fresh ones or artifical) or atleast the pictures of it, is good for marital harmony.Hang a large family photograph in the southwest corner of your living room. Make sure that all the members of your family are present in that picture. Portraits of people with composed and smiling faces encourage positive feelings. A picture should bring happy memories to mind.It is said that it should be re-arranged very often.You can keep offerings like rice grains or loose coins. This is done to satisfy the household gods who will guide you and your family. A married couple should have their photograph in their bedroom. In west area of the house, display a picture of your children. Do not display pictures of war or violence in your house. Make sure, that you dine together. Regarding colour of curtains always try to use bright colours like golden,ivory white,lemon yellow which creates a happy mood.

Fountains also symbolise wealth.Keep a water fountain near the east area of the house to promote family health and harmony. or placing a ship filled with cargo in a water fountain represents income. If the ship points inwards or towards the water spout, it refers to an invitation for new opportunities. Also, a fountain when combined with the symbol of a dragon is seen as an invitation for good fortune to enter your home.

Candles: Feng shui candles are available in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colours. By their very nature, they are associated with fire. Different coloured candles represent different characters or feelings such as wealth, happiness, and love. Scented candles further enhance the feelings they represent. Their tiny glow is believed to spread energy in the room where they are placed.

Wind chimes: Wind chimes are usually made of metal and are placed at the entrance to a room or hung at a window. The gentle music they produce is said to be a bringer of serenity to the room. It is also believed that the person who hears their tinkling is blessed with good luck. When combined with other Feng shui symbols, their effects change depending on the symbol they are combined with.

Don't place bonsai plants inside or outside the home. They represent stunted growth.

Fresh flowers bring luck and fortune in your home. Place fresh flowers in your living room on a regular basis. However, once they die, throw them out. Don't leave dying flowers in your home.

Avoid placing dried flowers in your house. They are believed to bring misfortune. Artificial flowers are a far preferable option and are believed to bring luck. Do not place any flowers, plants or any other auspicious feng shui symbol in the bathroom. The good luck will backfire and turn into bad luck. Similarly, oranges and lemons are believed to be powerful symbols of fortune, and bring prosperity to the home. They should be placed at the entrance.You can eigher hang these or you can use the wax models.They are believed to ward off the evil eye, according to Hindu superstitious beliefs.

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Response from: Bond 007 James,   
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Source: This information comes from my own knowledge.
hi malathi,

Feng shui tips for your happy married life are here --

Feng Shui practitioners believe that the best way to attract love is to adjust your environment accordingly. Dingy surroundings, piles of clutter, and self-absorbed artwork can actually drive Cupid from your door. Here, then, are 10 simple tips for finding your perfect mate... or for increasing the passion in your long-term relationship or marriage.

Replace Images of Lone Figures with Pictures of Happy Couples — Artwork has a tremendous impact on the subconscious. When you surround yourself with photos, paintings, sculptures, and knickknacks of solitary figures, you'll carry yourself accordingly. Replacing such images with representations of happy couples will make you more receptive to love.

Create Cozy Seating Arrangements — Single chairs send a loud and clear message to prospective suitors and spouses: Back off! If you're looking for love, create cozy seating arrangements from love seats, sofas, and chairs. Putting chairs at comfortable angles to each other will signal that you're ready for a relationship.

Keep the Television Out of the Bedroom — Nothing kills romance like the drone of late night television. If you have trouble falling asleep, try unwinding by reading love poetry or romantic novels. Your subconscious will shift accordingly, making you a virtual love magnet.

Treat Yourself to Sensual Bedding — That old ratty pillow from college and those serviceable sheets aren't doing your sex life any favors. Go ahead and splurge on pillows, blankets, and sheets that invite you to linger in bed.

Downsize from a King to a Queen — Sleeping on a huge mattress won't encourage intimacy. Invest in a comfortable queen-sized bed if you’d like to cultivate more love in your life. If you simply can't make the switch, make sure to sleep on patterned sheets to add some zest to your sex life.

Make Space for Each Other — Avoid making your partner feel crowded out by your possessions by reducing your personal clutter in shared areas of your home, closets, drawers, etc. When you demonstrate you are willing to share your physical space generously with your partner, the space in your hearts can open up, too.

Pull Your Bed away from the Wall — Pushing your bed against the wall effectively crowds out any chance for love to expand in your life. Arrange your bed so that it has enough space to walk on either side. Before you know it, you’ll be cuddling close with your special someone, instead of hugging your pillow for comfort as if you were alone.

Make Your "Relationship Gua" a Shrine to Love — Using the front door of your home as a reference point, the far right corner of your home represents relationships and is known as the "Relationship Gua" in Feng Shui. Therefore, you need to keep this area intimate and inviting. A love seat illuminated with adjustable lighting is ideal for this special spot.

Keep the Family at Bay — Your bedroom represents your romantic life. Therefore, the last images you want to see here are photos of dear old Mom and Dad. Children's artwork and toys will also undermine your sex life. Celebrate these relationships in other areas of your household, but keep your boudoir a private retreat.

Think Pink! — Warm colors like pink and red can enliven your love life considerably. Soft shades like rose, salmon, and coral can attract a gentle partner who is attentive to your needs, while bold colors like scarlet, crimson, and burgundy will draw a passionate adventurer to your side.

good luck

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