Subject: kindly suggest me some mantra or pooja or some good remedy to remove problems and hurdles.
Can some one please tell me how to remove hurdles and problems. I am suffering with lot of problems.
- I am not getting married despite of trying hard by me and my parents from past 4 years. I am 31. We have seen several matches for me but somehow most of the time boys rejected me. Is there anything any pooja which we need to do to make it possible. - I am not getting any stable job in my career and i am jobless from past 2 years. I always think of doing some additional certification and qualification but somehow don't proceed further. - My brother is suffering from mental illness and problems and he is also job less from past 8 years. He also has faced lot of problems in his married life. Now his marriage is in the verge of breaking this year and he has no kids. - There is no peace in our house. No one is earning at this moment. No auspicious thing seems to be happening.
We did several upayas as told to us by several astrologers, pandits. But no results are coming from anyways. Recently we also did Mahamritunjay jap and did udyapan also. But even after 2 months of this jaap, no results are coming.
Kindly help me to remove all these hurdles and my parents are now retired and also worried from all these problem of my delaying of marriage, brother's problem, no jobs.
First of i apologize for the late reply,as i was out of the town. Now i state belowthe numero facts of the solution. Please confirm if the the name of the distress native is not staring F,Or P, or D,M,T. If not then just check yp her /his date of birth is not 8,17,or 26th.or 7,16,or 25th of any month. step three the name number is not of Saturn or Ketu. Also please get your house VASTU done. Since your Astro aspect you have taken care nothing to add on that matter. Regards
Dear Questioner, I feel very sad by reading all your problems and that of you family. I suggest you to go with your family and perform pooja to Goddess ABIRAMI. The temple is situated in THIRUKKADAVUR, MAYAVARAM DISTRICT, THANJAVUR DISTRICT, TAMIL NADU. This is about your marriage. Goddess will certainly open HER eyes and bless you with a good life partner.
Regarding the hurdles in the job and prosperity, you have to get performed RUDRA JAPA in your house by some known PUNDITS. To start with PRADOSHAM day is auspicious and you can continue this RUDRA POOJA for 48days. chanting RUDRAM & CHAMAKAM along with the PUNDITS. There will be HOMAM also performed during POOJA and LORD SHIVA will be offered through AGNI DEVATA the offering to please HIM. I sincerely hope that LORD SHIVA will bestow you with HIS blessings and remove the hurdles in your life.
Also, you can visit the VAITHEESVARAN temple, where GODDESS THAIYAL NAYAGI & LORD VAITHEESWARA dwells. This temple is having speciality for JAYAYU MOKSHA and ANKARAHAN. You can perform ARHANA to LORD VAITHEESWARA, THAIYAL NAYAGI, LORD MUTHUKKUMRAN (KARTHIK) & ANKARAHAN.
Perform all these and your life will be normal and peaceful. Have full faith and perform the POOJAs.
The Lord Nithya Kalyana Perumal here is considered very powerful. Being the "nithya kalyana perumal", He is believed to bless his devotees with the holy state of matrimony. Young women or men, still unmarried for some reason or the other, are brought to this temple to receive the Lord's blessings. It is widely believed that whoever visits this temple and prays with sincerity, will be blessed with marital bliss.
One who desires to get married is made to wear a garland and go round the shrine a prescribed number of times. Once the prayers bear fruit and the devotee gets married, the couple must come with the wedding garlands, and tie the garlands to a tree behind the shrine.
The temple is on the East Coast Road, about 42 km from Chennai, about 16 km before Mamallapuram. One can reach the place easily by city transport buses, Route nos. 117, 118, 188K, 188V).
4) You can also do Solah Somavar Vrat
Please see these links to know about performing Solah Somvar Vrat
Solah Somvar Vrat is done to please Lord Shiva, the naive God who is so easy to please. One begins the fast on a Monday of the bright fortnight of any month.
On the 17th Monday, Udyapan or thanksgiving to Lord Shiv is done.
The person who observes the fast should do Shiv-Parvati Pooja after having a bath, the person should then read the “Solah Somvar Katha” and fast till sunset.
During the fast hours, the person may have some fruits, nuts and milk. They can have one meal at sunset. (They should have a salt free meal)
(On the day of the Vrat the person who does the Vrat should not eat onions, garlic, nonveg etc.)
Vidhi for Solah Somavar Vrat :
The Vidhi is like this-its very simple..not much is required and that which is required will be available at your home or at the temple
-bathing yourself early in morning and wearing fresh clothes
-Preparing the churma ie the prasaad yourself..
churma is prepared with wheat flour and sugar.Put these two in right proportions in the kadhai after heating desi ie pure ghee.The sugar should be lesser than the flour.Cook until it turns golden brown and it is ready.
-Go to the nearest temple and worship Shivlinga(and Shiv family) with water, chandan, flowers, milk,dhoop(incense etc) fruit etc..these things wil be easily available at your home otherwise in the temple..flowers etc are sold outside the temple.
-Its ok if you cant find bilva patra etc not necessary that you offer and find everything but whatever is done needs to be done with faith and sincerity.
-Keep chanting Om Namah Shivay or any Shiv mantra or stuti while doing the worship and before it..(pray to Lord Shiva in morning the first thing that you make no mistakes and those made unknowingly are forgiven by him.) Lord Shiva will help you complete your vrata successfully.
-Read the Vrat katha once in a day- the 16 monday's vrat katha is available with any book seller who sells religious books
-don't forget the evening Puja
-Eat just one meal a day; whether in evening or night is your wish.There should be no salt in the food.
-Fruits, milk, fruit juice can be consumed throughout the day whenever you feel like it.After 4 am(next morning) you can break your fast and eat anything you like
Udyapan (or the last puja of the fast that is done to break it) is done on the seventeenth Monday.
You can ask the temple priest to make a list of things are required for the worship and take them to temple on seventeenth Monday. The puja is performed with help of priest.
Fasting during periods :
You can keep the fast during periods otherwise it will break your Solah Somvar. But during periods women who fast should not go to Temple. They should not touch Scriptures, should not to Puja.
You cannot count that Monday. It will take more than 16 Mondays to complete Solah Somavar Vrat. You can also see
(This story is related at the time of breaking Monday fast. Unshakable belief in Lord Shiva brings prosperity and nonbelievers get sufferings. If the husband and wife have the same belief they are bound to lead a happy life. Even repentance at some stage is good).
Once Lord Shiva visited the famous city of Amravati. Parvati also accompanied him. On their way, they saw a beautiful Shiva temple and decided to spend some time there. One day, Parvati found Lord Shiva in a playful mood. She said to him, oh my Lord; let us have a dice game. Lord Shiva obliged her and the game started. Meanwhile, the priest of the temple had come there. Parvati turned towards him and said please foretell who will win this game?
The Brahman gave no serious thought to her question and abruptly said, Lord Shiva will win the game. Incidentally Parvati won the game. She was angry because the Brahman had told a lie. Lord Shiva tried to pacify her, but she cursed the Brahman that he be a leper.
Chant this mantra "Om satchithananda parabrahma purushothama paramathma sri bhagavathi sametha sri bhagavathe namaha".If you have Amma Bhagavan satsang center in your town.visit. you can do kalasha pooja for 21 days,having any photos of your favourite dieties or sri amma bhagavan.set right your relationship with your parents and do padha pooja for them if they are alive. Participate in homams like Rudra homam happening in Nemam,Chennai,tamilnadu.It is just 521 rs.You can know more about oneness movement which is helping lots of people through deekshas.you can google search about them
the first thing is belive in your self, try to get any good job for u first, after that u can make any settle for your brother, if he is not getting any job at list make some business , ask him to do some kind of small business of small budject, by this the problem may get solved little bit.
about pooja there is a pooja of lord shiva for 16 weeks if u do this regularly ur and your family problem may be get solved , it is done in every monday one day in a week, you must do it srtictly, you must past the whole day not even water also, after seven you go to nearrest temple of any god , after pooja there is a book called 16 mondays vratha there u can get all the instructions, try this and all the best for you and your family
Hello Mona, it is difficult to suggest remedies without studying your horoscope. However, looking at the problems you are facing, I can suggest a few remedies. Hope they help:
1. You have to perform the Navagraha Homam because it appears that planets are not favorable to you 2. Perform the Hanuman tail puja (if you want to know how to do it, contact me at "********@*****.***"). This is a very powerful puja and is known to bring results 3. Perform prayers to Shani Bhagwan every Saturday 4. Pray to Lord Shiva every Monday
Ensure that all your religious activities and auspicious tasks are not performed during Rahu Kaalam. Any good calendar will give you Rahu Kaalam for each day of the week.
Try meditation for 15 to 20 minutes in early morning (before 6 am) Say Om Namasivaya or Om Namo Narayana for 100 times or so. But do not count it. After that request God for your mental peace and getting job or any other problem to be solved. If possible do it evening also. But the sorroundings should be in calm. Then breathing excercise for 10 to 15 minutes is good for your health and peace of mind. My best wishes to you.
Please get a new diary. Every day write a letter to Sai Baba ji.It should be like....
Sri Satya Sai Babaji, ...(Please mention the problems....) Your devotee (your name) ----------------------------- Please keep this diary with you and write every day. It can be a small letter ..He will surely help...Keep the diary away from others....
Thank you for seeking advice here, you must be in quite a bit of discomfort in your life.
I understand that you are seeking a spiritual solution. I'm sorry if you think this is a deviation. But, I strongly think you should consult a Vaastu specialist or expert. You could also send us a drawing of your house with the direction of the sun rise and sun set. Your water source and your kitchen.
Alternatively move out of your house to any relative's house who are doing well, you will see some improvement in your situation temporarily.
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Hang a picture of Lord Hanuman crossing the ocean in your room. Also chant the "Sankashta Naashana Ganapati Stotram" and "Hanuman Chalisa" daily, and pray sincerely to God, to help you overcome all the problems
hi mona you send me your birth detail . i want to know about your plants . after that i wil tell you some puja,should you do fast of 16 Monday and should you pray of lord shiv and parvati. and itell you another pray .ofter the pray yur marriage will fix under the 30 day.but i cant say publicaly.
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