Want to add variety to your lovemaking? Don’t just try a new position, try them all! Get a book of sexual positions and move from one to the next, spending about a minute on each. See how many of them you can try! Mark your favorites to come back to next time, or keep the book near your bed and take turns book-marking positions you’d like to try next time.
Why don't you try the Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, By Vatasyayana.
The Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana ("Kama Sutra" is Sanskrit for "Aphorisms of Love") is an extraordinary and fascinating work that deserves careful reading and study. Written in ancient India, it is essentially a technical guide, a scholarly treatise if you will, to sexual enjoyment and other sensual pleasures.
It also contains profound historical and anthropological insights into the mores and customs of ancient India.
Do you think that if you know more sex positions your sex life will improve? Think again! Even the Kama Sutra warns of this dangerous assumption.
There are literally hundreds of modern books written on the subject of sex, many based on the theme that to learn new postures will lead to better sex. While knowledge of more positions can lead to better sex it alone will NOT mean you will have better sex.
Good sex is about knowing how to give each moment what it needs. It means moving from sex position to sex position naturally. Real sex between experienced partners usually shifts from position to position during a single session, at the whim of the lovers.
In the Indian Kama Sutra and Arabic Perfumed Garden, the act and manner of sex was an art-form.
In the Khajuraho statues, it has religious meaning.
The Joy of Sex was one of the first widely accepted modern sex manuals to describe sexual positions.
In the Kama Sutra, sixty-four sex positions are explained as arts.
These may be considered yoga positions for a couple. Tantric yoga, as applied to couples is sometimes called the yoga of union and is the supposed spiritual context for these positions.
These are the most widely known sex positions, and are widespread and prevalent during the act of sex.
1. Deckchair positionMissionary – most common position; man on top with direct penetration; woman on bottom, legs open.
2. Side entry missionary – variant on the missionary position; woman on side; man kneeling penetrates from behind.
3. Squashing of the deckchair – woman on bottom, legs pulled up; man on top, holds woman's legs.
4. Peace Sign – woman on bottom, legs tightly closed.
5. Butterfly position – woman lies on her back, man stands and lifts her pelvis for penetration
6. Coital alignment technique – variant on the missionary position
From behind Sex Positions:
1.Doggy – man penetrates from behind; woman on all fours, facing down.
2. Leapfrog – variant on the Doggy position; woman torso is lower; also known as "face down ass up".
3. Upright doggy – variant on the doggy position; woman kneels upright.
4. Spread-eagle – woman lies facing down, legs spread open; man on top. also known as the spider position.
5. Spoons position – side by side, both facing in same direction; man penetrates from behind.
6. Feet on his shoulders – her feet behind his head resting them on his shoulders.
7. Reverse Peace Sign – variant of Peace Sign, woman lies face down, knees held together.
Sitting and kneeling Sex Positions:
1. Armchair – variant on the watching the game; woman sits in a chair; man kneels in front of the woman.
2. Black bee – man sits, hands behind on the floor; woman sits on top, hands on shoulders.
3. Furniture – woman on the edge of furniture, legs spread; man kneels.
4. Persuading of the debtor – man penetrates kneeling; woman on back, ankles on each side of man's shoulders.
5. Playing of the cello – woman on back, ankles on one of the man's shoulders; man kneeling penetrates from back; also known as Playing of the violin.
6. Proposal – woman kneels, legs apart; man kneels, one knee on ground.
7. Split level – woman on bottom, legs around man; man kneels.
8. Watching the game – variant on the cowgirl position; man sits in a chair; woman sits, facing the man; also known as the Lap dance.
Standing Sex Positions:
1. Reverse piggy-back – man penetrates standing; woman lifted, wrapping legs around man; can be done free-standing or up against an upright surface. Also know as the tree position.
2. Stand and carry – man stands, holding woman; woman wraps legs around man's waist and arms around man's shoulders.
Sex Positions to obtain pregnancy:
The goal is to prevent excessive pressure on the belly and to restrict penetration as required by the particular male partner.
Some of the positions below are popular sex postions for sex during pregnancy.
1. Missionary with caution
2. Spoon
3. Leapfrog
4. Cowgirl
5. Spread-eagle
Less common sex positions:
These positions are more innovative, and perhaps not as widely known and practised as the ones listed above.
1. Reverse Amazon – variant on the cowgirl position; also known as 'Riding of the Steer'.
2. Horizontal reverse – variant on the reverse cowgirl; woman on top, facing down with torso lower; man on bottom.
3. Cross – woman on bottom; man on top perpendicular.
4. Head to toe – man on back, legs spread; woman on back on top, legs spread; both facing different directions,
5. Rocking chair – man on bottom; woman on all fours, facing up.
6. K – Man and woman lie on backs, heads pointed away from one another; each places one leg on other's shoulder (using it for bracing) and the other leg out somewhat to the side so that they form a capital K.
7. T-square position – woman on her back with knees up and legs apart, man lies on his side perpendicular to her, with his hips under the arch formed by her legs. Good during pregnancy.
8. Drilling for Oil – woman lies on her shoulders with her back up against a bed or couch (sort of a head-stand, except on shoulders) and legs folded toward her head. Man stands astride her vagina and inserts from a standing position.
Here is a list of links which gives you more details abt sex positions.
The likeness of a sex position differs from person to person. No one position gives a complete satisfaction forever. You must to change sex positions on and off. Mover over there may be a position that liked by women., but not man and vice versa. Here are some basic positions, which you can try for best sexual satisfaction..
1- Doggy leg lift
The next time your girl assumes the doggy position, simply lift her leg and either keep it against your hip or hold it up by the thigh. This way, you can penetrate her even deeper and your testicles will gently tap against her clitoris more prominently. Or, you can even use your free hand to massage her clitoris and drive her mad.
2- Missionary with pillows
Have your girl lie down on the bed, knees bent, feet planted on the bed. Place a couple of pillows under her ass. This not only allows you to penetrate her more deeply, it provides crazy clitoral stimulation and may well have you both reaching orgasm at the same time.
3- Spoon split
The awesome thing about spooning is that women feel like you're being incredibly affectionate. You also have better access to her body, and can maneuver her around more easily. Next time you decide to spoon, have her twist her body a little so you have access to her breasts. Then, lift one of her legs and either hold it up or try placing it behind you.
4- Reverse cowgirl squat
Instead of her riding you the typical way, kneel down and rest your ass on your heels. Now with her back to you, get her to squat up and down on your penis. If her legs aren't strong enough, she may have to lean on her hands, which is great considering you'll get an optimal view.
5- Standing rhythm
The next time you and your woman decide to stand in front of a mirror and watch yourselves have sex, add a little rhythm to your routine. Have her bend down so that her body is at a 90 angle, legs as straight as possible. Now, as you stand behind her giving her a dose of your mad moves, rotate your hips while you go in and out, slowly. And above all else, look at her body, make turned-on sounds, and then look into her eyes. Finally, give that sweet ass a smack and rub it better.
6- 69 + 1 (position) Now, when you think of the 69 position, you imagine oral sex, of course. But rather than alter the actual position, alter the technique instead. To begin, rather than have one of you on top of the other, lay side by side, as this gives both of you the freedom to maneuver. Now, use your fingers to enhance your oral expertise. Rub her clitoris, penetrate her, do whatever it takes to make her lose control, but not so much that she stops sucking drive her mad. Sex can always stand to undergo some changes, especially if they add more pleasure to the experience. So the next you're about to get nasty with your girl, try out some of these sex positions.
hi! Bib, Following are some of the common positions which are used:
Some Sexual Positions are:
Man-on-top (missionary position) Woman-on-top Side-by-side Rear-entry Spread-eagle Leapfrog Position Cross Position Cuissade Position Armchair Position Furniture Position Head to toe Lap Dance Split level Position Spoon Position Standing Position Standing and Carrying Position Swimming Position Spontaneous Position Anal intercourse (practiced by some heterosexual couples and some gay men) Do check out the following links to know about the different positions in detail: http://www.sexual-health-resource.o…
Though all the above links will give you an extensive information about each of the positions,It's finally upto you and your partner to decide which are the ones you would like to explore.Remember Sexual satisfaction is more psycological than physical.So have a good talk with your partner and decide upon all the different positions.And do not hold any inhibitions in your mind while implementing the positions.Explore each other's feelings and you will have no problems at all. All the best!!
Normal intercourse between a man and a woman means the penetration of the male organ, the penis, inside the vagina. Any position the man and woman assume to achieve this goal is sound and acceptable. For sex to be normal and pleasurable, both partners should agree to perform the act and it is not unusual if one of them indicates a dissatisfaction towards some acts.This fact is applicable in the case of positions and postures of sex. The most common and applied position in marriage sex is – (1) Missionary position (husband on top of wife) Anti Missionary Position ( wife on top of husband) sitting positions, dogy (69) positions, side to side, standing and reverse missionary etc. and oral sex position of many : The satisfaction of each and every position depends on person’s approach, sex libido, physical characteristics, willingness and etc. And the quality and pleasure with each and every position differ to persons. So we have to find out according to our thinking, fantazy by mutual acceptance, openness, and by frank performance. Get a book like Sex Power by RH Dastur to learn more or seek pre-marital counseling or visit this web site: www.sexualpositionsfree.com…. There you will get 100% details with clippings and visuals alogn with briefing,
Dear bib, Following are some sexual positions and All have some goodness in them so choose the Ones you/hubby like and enjoy. 1. The Doggy Style 2. The Hoovering of the Floor 3. The Playing of the Cello 4. The Riding of the Steer 5. The Persuading of the Debtor 6. The Sitting on the Toilet 7. The Rocking Recliner 8. The Black Bee 9. The Spoon 10. The Sixty-Niner 11. The Watching of the Cricket 12. The Reverse PIggy-Back 13. The Lady on Top 14. The Squashing of the Deckchair 15. The Reverse Woman on Top 16. The Proposal 17. The Side Entry Missionary 18. The Advanced Black Bee 19. The Upright Doggy 20. The Horizontal Reverse 21. The Missionary Position See them All in explicit Details at site below,if you are an Adult: http://www.condoms.au.com/positions…
Sir I feel very sorry for you. I strongly advise you to to see a Dr about your erection problems.
However, you may wish to try reinstating your relationship with your wife.
You have to gain her support and the only way you can do that is if you ensure that she is also satisfied, as she has needs too.
You may wish to get her oral sex, and wait to the point where she is almost orgasming and at that point enter her. This way you will both be satisfied.
In the long term, you need to consider various things:
1. physical health, are you tired, stressed, etc, look at this and tackle it.
2. diet, some foods can enduce premature ejaculation, try eating protein filled foods, it will possibly help sustain your erection.
3. other aspects, maybe you are stuck in the same old ways, try to bring in some romance and spice back into your married life, see if this helps.
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