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 From:  Anonymous, Location, Jan/03/14 submitted on:
Subject:  Dear Ammas Please tell me what to do....
Question:  Dear Ammas

Please tell me what to do. I fell in love with one guy but I don't want to settle down where he stays. As we have no extended family there and we are both foreigners. Moreover it is difficult for me to make a connection with people where he stays. He is very happy with his work and will not consider moving elsewhere. He will stay only. He says it's up to me if I go or stay. He says he will follow me, but not for now. I think this will be a long time in the future. I don't want to stay and have a family there. Sometimes I am decided on one side, and the next day I am changing my mind. It's a nightmare..

I know he does love me but we also have to think of extended family, community and a good place for children to grow up. Maybe he does not consider of these things. But he says it is also good for children to have more opportunities in life.

My dilemma has gone on for years.

What should I do?

Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 1 Council Members)

ramya a,
Registered Member

Loving a person is just a part of marriage. Marriage comes with responsibility and I think you have to seriously take a decision where you want to settle down first. Settling down in foreign coun

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 2 Council Members)

Vaggos Dimo,
Registered Member
  Well as long as you don't have children,living and be in a relationship as individuals,is not something you should consider as problem.With kids on the relationship,in my opinion,you must work on comm

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Rate = 3.5 (Rated by 1 Council Members)

Ashok Vundavalli,
Council Member
  Sit and talk to him. If you just keep it to yourself you will keep on worrying and the pain wont go. Just take to to a nice and peaceful place and put your proposal before him. He will definitely cons

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Rate = 3.5 (Rated by 1 Council Members)

Amit Agarwal,
Council Member
  You should consider your own benefits. If you feel that your dreams will not get fulfilled or u won't get what u want from this relationship then break it off. Think Selfishly

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Rate = 2 (Rated by 1 Council Members)

 From:  Anonymous, Nigeria, Dec/10/13 submitted on:
Subject:  relationships

Here is the question: Am inlove with a guy he is a shy type such as me what do I do

Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 2 Council Members)

Aban Shah,
Registered Member
  You try and make him comfortable with your charm and beauty. The more relaxed he is the likelihood of him coming out of his shell becomes higher. Its difficult but not impossible ,if there are any in

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 1 Council Members)

Clyde Murray,
Registered Member
  When dealing with a shy Man you as the Woman should tell him how you feel slowly. There are many ways to hint your love for him without scaring him off. Even though you are shy you can only be hones

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 1 Council Members)

francis bonner,
Registered Member
  next time you see him try just looking at him and smiling if he see's you looking then look away just keep looking every so often. Just try your best to be confident keep eye contact but not too much

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 1 Council Members)

David ,
Council Member
  Hi there, Anonymous in Nigeria! Well, who can tell whether you, or he, are in love? So how do you start the process of finding out? Do you have any mutual interests? Are you at school or college?

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 1 Council Members)

Nagarajan S,
Council Member
  There are several reasons why people get shy. Because of childhood experiences, rejection, social phobia or even genetics. A shy guy has increased sensitivity and he is bound to be self conscious, on

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Rate = 3.5 (Rated by 1 Council Members)

 From:  Dibyendu Chakraborty, KOLKATA, Nov/25/12 submitted on:
Question:  Hi,

About 2 years ago, I got out of a relationship and have been single ever since. It has been my only relationship so far, and now that I think about it, I feel I had committed too soon without getting to know my ex really well. My ex always questioned my love for her, and it used to hurt a lot at that time because when I was in that relationship, I used to believe that I really loved her. After our breakup, I pondered over it a lot, and now I feel maybe my ex was right, maybe I didn't love her at all. I feel that I am too self centered to actually love another person. I'm an introvert and I feel drained if I do not get space, and my ex didn't understand my need for space. Anyway, after our breakup, I feel I'm incapable of loving another person, and if I get into another relationship, I'll once again feel suffocated if I do not get some space..some alone time for myself.

Now recently, I've taken a liking towards a colleague of mine. I don't love her...but my feelings might blossom into love if we really get to know each other well. But at the same time I feel what if I get bored of her after sometime...what if the way I feel about her is not real...maybe I'm just bored and needed a hobby and that's why I "think" I like the same's hard for me to ignore her and get on with my life. I feel I should tell her that I like her...but my doubts about my capability of actually loving another person is holding me back.

Are my fears genuine? What do I do? I really don't want to hurt this person by telling her I like her and later finding out that I don't. I feel happy if I get to help her in any little way I can. I get a bit sad and jealous when she shares a laugh with some colleagues other than me. But a part of me feels what I'm feeling about her is not true...maybe my loneliness is making me feel this way....I'm terribly confused.

Thanks a lot for your responses.

Rate = 3 (Rated by 2 Council Members)

Bobby Saxena ,
Council Member
  You are not the only one who has this problem. We all go thru this once in our life. These feeling happen when we experience this for the first time. Yes! this hurts. But time is a great healer. You w

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Rate = 3 (Rated by 5 Council Members)

 From:  Anonymous, United Kingdom, Sep/05/12 submitted on:
Subject:  Common Knowledge

Here is the question: Does max love me

Rate = 2 (Rated by 3 Council Members), Ltd,
Council Member
  I'm not sure, you should ask.

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Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 1 Council Members)

 From:  Anonymous, United States, Jan/07/12 submitted on:
Subject:  LOVE
Listen to the voice query here:…

Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

Lata Verma,
Council Member
  Can you love more than one person?

It depends on how you define love. For me love is to care about somebody. In that terms, I love my kids, my husband, my brother, dad, mom, and friends. I love the

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Rate = 2 (Rated by 1 Council Members)


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