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 From:  Prakash N, CHENNAI, May/31/11 submitted on: Ammas.com
Subject:  Dear Sir, I'm Prakash 40 years unmarr...
Question:  Dear Sir,

I'm Prakash 40 years unmarried. I've recently proposed to marry a lady of 42 years whom I know for the last 6-7 years. She is divorced and has a daughter aged 12 years. Initially there was a negative reply from her and after my convincing her for more than a month that I am willing to take the daughter as my own and started showing my full love and affection towards "our" daughter and I was strong on one point that I want the co-operation of our daughter for the marriage. Atlast she accepted, but now when we approached our daughter for her cooperation in getting married, initially she was happy but for the last 2-3 days she is dead against our marriage idea and is not willing even to see me. What and How to pacify our daughter? My love and affection for our daughter is 100% from the bottom of my heart. This is for sure. Please advise how to go about this?

Rate = 3 (Rated by 4 Council Members)

Aranya ,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Well Prakash,kids now a days are very individual and tough.They are no more easy where they keep their mouth shut no matter what we do.Girls of her age also have peer pressure from her friends/classm

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Rate = 4.5 (Rated by 4 Council Members)

 
sri krishna,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  She might get wrong feedback on u from somebody else.or somebody created a wrong feeling.try to get the real reason why she opposed..,any body insulting her on her mother getting 2nd marrage.convence

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Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 2 Council Members)

 
 From:  SP, AZ, May/30/11 submitted on: Ammas.com
Subject:  Control and Anger Issues : My husband is...
Question:  Control and Anger Issues : My husband is a nice person generally- he is religious , does not drink or smoke or does not have other bad habits . Has a good character overall but he is very controlling and has anger issues. When I had my baby two years back my sister visited me (although we are 4 hrs away from flight) to throw me a baby shower , she came to see the baby after she was born ..came on babies first bday everytime with a lot of gifts .. When my sister was expecting this year I wanted to go for her baby shower but my husband told me NO. I was upset but consented as he throws a temper tantrum followed by a daya/weeks long silence and I did not want to subject my two years old daughter to that . Now that my sister gave birth I mentioned again that we should go visit and he flately told me "For sure we are not going" .. I lost it this time and got angry with him .. after that I told him if you dont want to go its upto you and me and my daughter are going to visit my sister . Its been a week and he is silent and grouchy and when i try to talk for my daughters sake he gets visibly very angry that frightens me ... So although he is otherwise a nice person ..its my way or highway with him... We have been married 15 years and I am generally a very compromising person .. but I want him to grow up now as I dont want my daughter to pick up those traits from him. Also I feel he does more harm to himself this way .... I do care for him and my family a lot so I just want to know how to deal with him as he is really not an easy person to deal with .. he would never agree for any counselling or anger management .....

Rate = 3 (Rated by 5 Council Members)

sambasivan s,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Hello SP, AZ,

Your husband is a nice person. After your narrating ur experience I am reminded of what happened say twenty/twenty five years ago.

For a similar request from my wife -- she wanted to

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 2 Council Members)

 
usha gurnani,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  I think you should sit with him and try to make him understand about the disadvantages of losing his temper and how it affects your kids. You should explain all this to him when he is in a nice mood

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

 
Aranya ,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Yes,you are right,he is not easy to deal with.So,let's not try to deal with him but rather ask him what he feels about your sister visits,her gifts,and her love.I wonder what he thinks of her visits i

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

 
sri krishna,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  u dint mention y he opposed to go to ur sister place...is there any backdrop story behind both the families..?if so 1st try to solve angres or distances btn families.ur saying ur sister visiting to ur

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Rate = 2 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

 
bhaskara ramam g,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  counselling never helps. there are 2 ways to apporach. one isw perform poojas according to the horoscope which will reduce the intensity and in due course it will go. the other one is treaat wiht home

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Rate = 1.5 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

 
 From:  Anonymous, United States, May/25/11 submitted on: AnswerPod.com
Subject:  Common Knowledge
Question: 

Here is the question: What is homosexuality?

Rate = 3 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

Nagarajan S,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Heterosexual means men being sexually and emotionally attracted to women, and women being sexually and emotionally attracted to men. Again, in common speech people may say "straight men or women" rath

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Rate = 4.5 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

 
David ,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Homosexuality, to use the word correctly, is a desire for one of one's own sex. It can apply equally to either sex but is more often used in man to man relationships. Its origin is sometimes attribu

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

 
vijay qamra,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  omosexuality is romantic and/or sexual attraction or behavior between members of the same sex or gender. As a sexual orientation, homosexuality refers to "an enduring pattern of or disposition to expe

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

 
surjit singh,
Council Member
  NDTV
  Physical/sexual relations between males is known as homoseuality.

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Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

 
 From:  sambasivan s, India, May/22/11 submitted on: Ammas.com
Subject:  Friendship-- People without kids are ...
Question:  Friendship--

People without kids are not comfortable with people with kids and hence they do not mingle with them. Have you ever noticed this trend? I think this is more in western countries and slowly it is getting into our country (India) also. Earlier people use to exchange pleasantries, talk for a while. Now even in India many of us do not know who is residing in the next flat and what is he doing in his profession? Why this trend has come about? Is it because of software industry's domination over other industries? (Let me add in our flats - we have only 9 flats and I talk to them at least at regular intervals whether they like it or not).Please share your experience in this regard. it makes it interesting to know the experience of others.

Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 8 Council Members)

- Bahu -,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Dear Sambasivan S,

Thank you for your query.

I completely agree with you that increasingly people have less and less sense of community and spend far less time socialising with neighbours, etc.

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Rate = 3.5 (Rated by 10 Council Members)

 
Gowri Raman,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Hi

The present day generation/population is consumed my financial tensions and I don't think not having kids is an issue among younger generation as issues are more serious with them.

Life is fu

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Rate = 3.5 (Rated by 10 Council Members)

 
Rajesh Kumar Mishra,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  What I have seen around me that people without kids are very much friendly with people having kids. The tendency of material pursuit is making our society very much self centered.In modern days peopl

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Rate = 3 (Rated by 10 Council Members)

 
Nagarajan S,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Yes it is correct. I have noticed several tiem that people without kids are not comfortable with kids since they don't know the value of kids. Kids are not only our assets but also our happiness in o

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Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 11 Council Members)

 
vineet saxena,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Hi Samba,

I truly agree with you, now apartment culture has taken the intimacy which used to be there in previous days. Every body is so busy in his own life style and busy schedule that nobody bothe

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Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 10 Council Members)

 
Nalini Sadasivan,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Yes, Mr.Sambasivan. I agree with you. Not only people with/without kids, now a days people do not want to be more closer to their neighbours. There may be so many reasons other than the software indus

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Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 10 Council Members)

 
maitri rath,
Registered Member
  Ammas.com
  It is the advent technology specially mobile phone, which is easily available to even the poorest person. So instead of going out and talking everyone prefers to chat on phone, the young are stuck to

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Rate = 2 (Rated by 10 Council Members)

 
Suresh Chandra Gupta,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  I agree with your observations. We have 8 flats in our building, total 356 flats in the apartments. We exchange pleasantries and also talk for a while with residents of the 7 flats. With many of the r

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Rate = 2 (Rated by 10 Council Members)

 
sri krishna,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  yes u r true,because they feel uneasy always.i found it with my neighbour.

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Rate = 1.5 (Rated by 12 Council Members)

 
 From:  Anonymous, United States, May/19/11 submitted on: AnswerPod.com
Subject:  Dealing with verbal and physically abusing husband
Question: 
Listen to the voice query here: http://www.ammas.com/uploadedfiles/…

Rate = 3.5 (Rated by 3 Council Members)

Nagarajan S,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  This is especially true when the abuse is psychological, rather than verbal and physical. Emotional abuse is often minimized, yet it can leave deep and lasting scars. Verbal abuse can create just as m

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Rate = 4.5 (Rated by 6 Council Members)

 
Gowri Raman,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Hi friend,

You can deal with an abusive husband like this:

Take responsibility in accepting the fact that you are being abused. If possible, communicate with your husband that his abusiveness m

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 6 Council Members)

 
sambasivan s,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Hello Anonymous, United States !

Your query made me think a lot and consult a lot of people.

Your decision will depend upon whether you are confident of staying alone as a single person without ma

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Rate = 4 (Rated by 6 Council Members)

 
sats harry,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Hey hi, you were indicating that your husband is abusing you offlate, i guess you have had a wonderful relationship earlier on, what went wrong between the period he lost & found a job. I mean there m

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Rate = 3.5 (Rated by 4 Council Members)

 
purushotham am,
Council Member
  Ammas.com
  Respect, Friendly nature and Helpful in all sort of problems makes a couple fight-free happy living. If this crosses limits with anybody' ego problems with hurting opposite partner feelings with abus

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Rate = 2.5 (Rated by 5 Council Members)

 

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