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dear amma's,i have 3 1/2 mths old daug.her feed table is as follows...mor(6-7am) n whole night(whenever she's awake say around 2-3 times)i'm breast feeding her according to dr i'm giving her rice cerelac bt 9.30-10.30am then around 11am bath n then by 11.30-11.45am she goes to sleep sometimes she's in sound sleep for 3hrs else she's awake by 1.30-2pm.then i breastfeed her later she plays for a while n goes back to sleep for 1hr or so...when she awake i give her fresh diluted orange juice (as per dr advice)once in a while this feed misses.later bt 6-7pm i give her cerelac again n before she goes to sleep i breastfeed her.she's increasing her weight pretty well...is this schedule fine...?or do i need any change in them...? when can i introduce other food like ragi...boiled n pureed fruits n veg n what all veg n fruits can be introuduce???i prefer to give her home made which has more of nutrition value... rather the processed food...(pls correct me if i'm wronge)
coming to the problem...she's not passing her motion properly...this is since 4 days.4days back she din't pass on 2 day she passed once...then y'day ie 3rd she din't pass...yet,i gotta watch today...so what could be the prob...??when i started cerelac 20days back she was doing fine...this has started only since 4 days...is it coz i'm giving twice cerelac???when i first started she used to pass atleast twice a day...so i'm feeling that she's not able to digest the second cerelac feed...right???so instead can i give her baby rusk soaked in formula or water??one more thing is she is not liking the taste of "bonisan" which i'm supposed to give her 1/2 tsp twice a day...which is the best time to give it...i give some spoons of boiled n cooled water in bt the feeds is it ok???
pls help me out n guide me well we r living far away from my parents n in laws so i have no one near to guide me well...i'm completly depending on u ammas...thank you in advance!!
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Dear Amma, Thanks for all your support.
I have two issues; need your advice on this.
First, We are basically a nuclear family.
I have a son of 8 years old, we live in a joint family and my bill has a daughter who is 1.3 years old.
We live in first floor separately and rest of them stay ground floor..
So during school holidays my son stays at home all alone watching TV so mother-in-law sends my niece to play with him.
They both keep playing.
But yesterday, my niece has a habit of fiddling the navel hole
with whom ever she’s playing with , she was doing that to my son and he has pulled his pants down to make her
play with his pennies, my sister in-law had to see this and she was terribly upset on this. This has disturbed peace at home.
Second, My son has committed another mistake, we have a piggy bank for him, which he makes sure he puts some money every day.
Last holiday he has taken this money given it to his friend to buy some playing cards.
He said this is my money take and get me the cards.
We noticed the dump box was not as heavy as usual, I check with him and he lied me saying he doesn’t know anything about it.
I got to know through my neighbor that he has used the money.
I was shocked that he lied to me.
I need your advice, if I should take him to a child counselor or is it the usual thing with children.
Please let me know, I just cant accept, that my son lies and doing all nasty/dirty things.
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