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| From: | saranya, India, Oct/04/11 submitted on: Ask Agent | |
| Subject: | Hi All, I am from TamilNadu. I love a... | |
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Hi All,
I am from TamilNadu. I love a guy who doesnot belong to my religion.My Star is Mithunam(Thiruvathirai), my boy friend's star is Rishabam (Rohini). When i checked in few websites, i found that we have rajju mismatch. Since he is from other religion is it necessary to see this porutham... pls advice
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online astrologer PREMKUMAR MG, Council Member Ammas.com |
madam
both the stars rohini and thiruvathirai belongs to same rajju. it should be avoided for marraiage purposes. all the best |
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Raju Balasubramanian, Council Member Ammas.com |
It is not at all necessry to see porutham. Both of you loving each other. So go to Register Office and marry. If your parents permit, it is okay. Otherwise you need not bother about them. | |
| From: | Anonymous, SINGAPORE, Sep/06/11 submitted on: Ammas.com | |
| Subject: | hi ammas, how r u all? It's been long s... | |
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hi ammas,
how r u all? It's been long since i logged in here. Here is my problem. This oct i would be completing 13 years of married life. Mine was arranged marriage.
Have gone thru lot of problems. My inlaws etc and intially my hubby was not understanding and always we had differences etc. He did hit me several times at that time i even thought of walking out. Well,could i say there was eye opener in 08 when my mom died.The same guy who was heartless and ir rational,turned new leaf. Ever since he is such changed person and on that front am happy.
Real problem is he doesn't want kids,when i asked him why? He said my father should chip in some amount to bring up kid. He is in senior position in european bank,not that he can't afford.Now the new drama is he want's quit job take sabbatical for 6 months to year. Every day there is new episode at home. To be honest with u guys,he has not touched me for the last few years. I really don't know what to assume with this... I'm highly stressed and if i confront he raises his voice or tells me he has headache etc.
Some how my gut feel is coz am insisting on child he wants to take time off,so that i won't raise this topic.
You don't know amma what is going thru me. Every day once he comes back from work is night mare...
Please advice me what should i do,how take it forward.
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Thought Prod, Registered Member Ammas.com |
Hey! First I want to express my condolence. This is a tough situation and you're strong to be dealing with it. Clearly you and your husband want different things in life. And because its an arranged | |
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Gopala Krishna, Registered Member Ammas.com |
Sorry to hear about it Dear. To me I feel , he does need counseling and Good health check up. But I know most of the men do not agree for both the suggestions since , it is like a prestige issue for t | |
| From: | Anuradha, PITTSBURG, Aug/01/11 submitted on: Ammas.com | |
| Subject: | marriage | |
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DOB: 22-Jan-1982 and time of birth: 04:35 AM Can you pls tell me about the reason and if any pariharam can be done as marriage is getting delayed?
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Preetha
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Dear Anuradha, You have not mentioned the place of birth. However, I assumed that you may be born in Pitts burg under the latitude and longitude of 40° 26' 26" North / 79° 59' 46" West. | |
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Arun Kumar , Registered Member Ammas.com |
Females born in this nakshatra,unlike the males,you may have to dev out much time and energy to your family. You may have to seperate from your husband,but only temporarily.this result will be nullifi | |
| From: | Shivakumari, Karnataka, India, Aug/01/11 submitted on: Ammas.com | |
| Subject: | marriage | |
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Preetha
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Ms.Sivakumari, According to your date of birth details, you have born in Rohini Star 1st quarter. Your rasi and lagna both are Vrishaba( Taurus). Presently Raghu Dasha, Sukra Bukthi is running | |
| From: | xyz abc, SAN JOSE, Jul/08/11 submitted on: Ammas.com | |
| Subject: | marriage | |
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hi, i'm from a middle class family in Andhra and was married for 4 months. mine is an arranged marriage. i'm having problems with my mother-in-law, she is spoiling my husbands mind. whenever i visit my MILs home, my in-laws would constantly throw mud on me & my parents and any reply from my side would be twisted and presented to my husband as my evil nature. initially he asked me to behave respectfully and convince his parents that i'm good. But all my attempts are in vain and every attempt is twisted and presented as a new proof of my evil nature. now he is made to believe that i'm trying to separate him from his parents. my husband is a very good son without any bad habits, his only bad habit (as it appears) is that his mother is his universe. my husband and MIL talks over phone every day for around 2 hrs (away from me) and after that i have to face constant questions. sometimes he even uses some words that are generally not used by men and are used only by middle class women, it makes me feel that even his words are his mother's. I am not able to bear his harsh words and i'm failing to convince him. my brother tried to soften the situation and it was also treated into an evil plan coming out of my parental house. Root cause of the situation appears to be the insecurity of my MIL developed out of her mad love towards her son (even now, she would feed his son whenever we visit their place) and my husbands blind belief in his mother. I love my husband very much and do not want
to do not want to break up. please help me in resolving this situation.
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Preetha
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Dear Girl, I believe this is a situation that would have been agreed on before marriage. Living with your inlaws especially in the early years of marriage is a very big burden. Understand That You | |
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Saiblessed Dhull, Registered Member Ammas.com |
You should try to show to your husband that you care for him and his mother. Speak good words about his mother.Send some presents for her and keep your husband in picture. Situation will improve in si | |
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rani raju, Council Member Ammas.com |
what about your father in law? if he is around take help from him. you live in usa where your mil leaves? if she is in India be cool have patience, in just 4 months how can you imagine your husband wi | |
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Leena Daniel, Council Member Ammas.com |
Unfortunately lots of women face the situation that you are facing, and its a shame that you are newly married and your problems with MIL is extreme . You said you love your husband very much and don' | |
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usha gurnani, Council Member Ammas.com |
The only solution to your problem is that your mother in law should be made to understand that your husband has his wife and he needs to have a balance with her and you. You should have a talk with y | |
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Nagarajan S, Council Member Ammas.com |
Since you know your husband only for the last 4 months only after marriage. In general, newly married man will hear only new wife's words. But most of the husbands never change his attitude immediate | |
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Mayur Kashikar, Council Member Ammas.com |
Try to make your husband believe tht you respect his mom and kip discussing abt or shopping for her.ur aim isnt to brk his love for mom but to gain his confidence.tlk to MIL only infront of him so tht | |
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sai , Registered Member Ammas.com |
The same exact thing happened to my sister.Everything subsided after they had a baby. your problem will also be solved once you have a baby and then your husbands attention will be diverted towards th | |
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sitaraman gupta, Council Member Ammas.com |
In India this type of family happenings are very common.Be cool and very polite.Don't make unnecessary arguments.Keep yourself busy.With the time all will be well.Ignore the unpleasant behaviour of yo | |
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Lakshmi Bhat, Registered Member Ammas.com |
Dear Madam,
Insecurity is common in every relationship, only thing is shud be handled with little maturity, always remember first try ur fight urself without allowing your family to enter in between |
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